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BETH FISCHER
BETRAYAL TRAUMA EXPERT
Unfaithful Partners: Are You Ready To Make Things Right But You Aren't Sure What You're Missing?
You don’t have to have it all figured out to start. If you’re ready to take ownership and learn how to help your spouse heal, we can guide you step by step.
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We Have Answers and We Can Help You Figure This Out...
You may think you already know why you did what you did. Or maybe you have no idea why you made those choices and don’t know how to even start unraveling the mess you made. Either way, if you’re here, it means you are still looking for answers.
It might be hard to believe right now, but life can get good again. You can heal, and you can help your partner heal too. It doesn’t happen overnight, and it won’t happen by ignoring what’s happened or hoping it goes away. But if you’re willing to learn and grow, you can become the kind of person who brings safety, honesty, and stability back into your life and your relationship. It starts with one step.
No More Guessing.
Here’s what the path forward can look like:
Step 1: Slow Down
Before you can fix anything, you need to pause and really see what’s happening in your life
Step 2: Get Honest With Yourself
Start understanding why you made the choices you did and recognize what you’ve been avoiding.
Step 3: Learn How to Handle The Difficult Moments
These feelings are heavy, but they don’t have to control you or keep you stuck.
Step 4: Learn How to Help Your Partner Heal
Discover what rebuilding trust actually looks like, and what helps (and what doesn’t).
Step 5: Start Becoming the Person You Want to Be
As you grow, you can bring honesty, safety, and strength into your life and your relationship.
And We Can Help You Every Step Of The Way...
Hi, I’m Beth.
Welcome to the post-betrayal world. It’s a place no one plans to visit, and it can feel disorienting, heavy, and harsh. Most people who find themselves here feel lost, unsure how to move forward, and afraid nothing will ever feel normal again.
But here’s what I’ve seen: it is possible not just to survive in the post-betrayal world but to grow in it. To become someone you’re proud to be. To learn how to take real ownership of your choices while helping your partner heal from the pain caused. It won’t happen by ignoring what’s happened or hoping time alone will fix it. It happens by facing it, learning, and taking action.
If you’re willing, my team and I can help you learn how to live and even thrive in this post-betrayal world. One clear, honest step at a time.
Read These Thoughts From Others
We've Worked With..
“I didn’t think I needed help. I thought I knew why I cheated and just needed to move on. But working with Beth’s team showed me there was so much I didn’t see about myself, and I was hurting my wife even when I thought I was helping. This process gave me tools to actually support her healing while doing my own.” – Mark T.
“Before working with Beth, I didn’t realize how much damage I was still causing by avoiding hard conversations and not taking full ownership. This work taught me how to be honest in a way that was healing, not defensive. My wife and I have a long way to go, but now we have a path forward.” – David L.
“I used to think saying ‘I’m sorry’ was enough. I didn’t understand how deep the pain went for my wife. Beth’s team helped me learn how to hold space for her, manage my shame, and finally start becoming a man I respect. I’m grateful for the clear steps and accountability.” – Anthony T.
“I came into this thinking it was about helping my wife feel safe again. It was, but it was also about me becoming someone I actually liked. The programs and support helped me see my patterns, take real responsibility, and learn how to rebuild trust the right way. I wish I had done this sooner.” – James O.
Please Keep In Mind If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes
If you're here, something is missing. We know you wish you could change the past, but we also know you can't. So, the question before you now is this what is missing?
If you are ready to transform your life and your relationship, then it's time to take the next step and we are here to help you every step of the way.
Please Keep In Mind
If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes
If you're here, something is missing. We know you wish you could change the past, but we also know you can't. So, the question before you now is this what is missing?
If you are ready to transform your life and your relationship, then it's time to take the next step and we are here to help you every step of the way.
Here Are Two Options For You, Completely Free:
1. Book a Complimentary Session with Doug, our client care specialist, and talk through your specific situation. Sometimes telling your story to someone who understands betrayal trauma can be extremely healing all by itself.
2. Watch a short, complimentary online course called A Hero's Journey, recorded by Beth Fischer. This course outlines the real steps unfaithful partners need to take to begin the healing journey.
The Most Common Questions We Get Asked
Do I really need help if I already know why I cheated?
You may think you understand your reasons, but chances are you do not. All of our clients thought they knew their reason but after just a couple of sessions they realize they did not. Reasons for sacrificing your integrity go much deeper than the surface reasons you're probably thinking of. And, if your partner is still hurting—or if trust is still broken—there is definitely more to uncover. This isn’t about shame; it’s about truly understanding your patterns so you can change them for good.
Can you help if my partner doesn't want to talk to me?
Yes. Even if your partner isn’t ready to engage, there is important work you can do right now. As you begin to understand your deeper reasons for the betrayal, and share those with your partner, it can create a safer environment for your partner to heal and begin learning to trust again. Your work is not dependent on your partner.
I already carry enough shame. Are we going to continue talking about what I did?
Many of the people we work with already feel buried under shame. This isn’t about piling on more guilt or rehashing what happened just to make you feel worse. It’s about understanding what led to your choices so you can change those patterns for good. We focus on growth, ownership, and awareness so people can rid themselves of shame. The last thing we want is for people to stay stuck in shame.
What if I want to stay with my partner but my partner is unsure? Do I still need to do this work?
Yes. Even if your partner isn’t sure about staying, there is work for you to do. You can’t control your partner’s decision, but you can become the kind of person who is capable of rebuilding trust. Doing this work helps you take real ownership, break some of your own bad habits, learn how to support your partner’s healing, and become someone you’re proud of—no matter what happens next.
You might be thinking this is just going to be about beating you up for what you did. It’s not. I promise.
This is about helping you understand what led to your choices so you can change them for good. It’s about giving you clear steps so you can help your partner heal and feel proud of who you’re becoming.
You don’t have to do this alone, and you don’t have to stay stuck in shame forever. There’s a way forward, and we can help you take it.
You might be thinking this is just going to be about beating you up for what you did. It’s not. I promise.
This is about helping you understand what led to your choices so you can change them for good. It’s about giving you clear steps so you can help your partner heal and feel proud of who you’re becoming.
You don’t have to do this alone, and you don’t have to stay stuck in shame forever. There’s a way forward, and we can help you take it.
You Can’t Change the Past.
But You Can Change What You Do Next.
If you’re ready to book a complimentary call, please do. We can talk about what’s going on in your life and help you feel a little less alone in this. You don’t have to have it all figured out before you reach out. We’ll work with you to figure it out together.
If you’re ready for some clear action steps you can start taking right now, click the link to watch A Hero’s Journey. This free mini-course will show you how to start making things right and what you can do to rebuild trust, one step at a time.
What If You're Ready To Get To
Work Right Now?
You’ve started by watching A Hero’s Journey or talking with Doug and that’s a powerful beginning.
But if you’re serious about changing your life, restoring trust, and becoming someone you’re proud of… you can’t stop there.
You need a process. A clear, proven path that helps you take full responsibility, understand the WHY behind what happened, and start rebuilding from the inside out.
That’s exactly what these courses were designed to do.
What If You're Ready To Get To Work Right Now?
You’ve started by watching A Hero’s Journey or talking with Doug and that’s a powerful beginning. But if you’re serious about changing your life, restoring trust, and becoming someone you’re proud of… you can’t stop there.
You need a process. A clear, proven path that helps you take full responsibility, understand the WHY behind what happened, and start rebuilding from the inside out.
That’s exactly what these courses were designed to do.
WHAT Have I Done - Online Course
Tell the truth. Own the impact. Stop making things worse.
This course is your starting point. It teaches you why full disclosure matters, how “trickle truth” delays healing, and what it really means to stop defending and start repairing.
Best for: Unfaithful partners who haven’t disclosed everything, or still feel defensive
Includes: 8 sessions, optional workbook, lifetime access
What's My WHY - Online Course
Uncover the real reasons behind your betrayal and transform from the inside out.
Once you’ve taken full ownership of what you did, it’s time to understand why. This course helps you explore your unmet needs, emotional patterns, and internal stories so you can break the cycle for good.
Best for: Partners ready for deep personal insight and lasting change
Includes: 8 sessions, optional workbook, lifetime access
The HOW Behind The Hurt - Online Course
Identify the thought patterns and justifications that made betrayal possible.
You didn’t just “slip.” You told yourself stories that made betrayal feel justified. This course helps you identify and uproot those distortions so they can never lead your life again.
Best for: Partners who minimized, blamed, or rationalized their choices
Includes: 8 sessions, optional workbook, lifetime access
What If You're Ready To Get To Work Right Now?
You’ve started by watching A Hero’s Journey or talking with Doug and that’s a powerful beginning.
But if you’re serious about changing your life, restoring trust, and becoming someone you’re proud of… you can’t stop there.
You need a process. A clear, proven path that helps you take full responsibility, understand the WHY behind what happened, and start rebuilding from the inside out.
That’s exactly what these courses were designed to do.
What If You're Ready To Get To Work Right Now?
You’ve started by watching A Hero’s Journey or talking with Doug and that’s a powerful beginning. But if you’re serious about changing your life, restoring trust, and becoming someone you’re proud of… you can’t stop there.
You need a process. A clear, proven path that helps you take full responsibility, understand the WHY behind what happened, and start rebuilding from the inside out.
That’s exactly what these courses were designed to do.
WHAT Have I Done - Online Course
Tell the truth. Own the impact. Stop making things worse.
This course is your starting point. It teaches you why full disclosure matters, how “trickle truth” delays healing, and what it really means to stop defending and start repairing.
Best for: Unfaithful partners who haven’t disclosed everything, or still feel defensive
Includes: 8 sessions, optional workbook, lifetime access
What's My WHY - Online Course
Uncover the real reasons behind your betrayal and transform from the inside out.
Once you’ve taken full ownership of what you did, it’s time to understand why. This course helps you explore your unmet needs, emotional patterns, and internal stories so you can break the cycle for good.
Best for: Partners ready for deep personal insight and lasting change
Includes: 8 sessions, optional workbook, lifetime access
The HOW Behind The Hurt - Online Course
Identify the thought patterns and justifications that made betrayal possible.
You didn’t just “slip.” You told yourself stories that made betrayal feel justified. This course helps you identify and uproot those distortions so they can never lead your life again.
Best for: Partners who minimized, blamed, or rationalized their choices
Includes: 8 sessions, optional workbook, lifetime access
If You Like Discounts, We Offer A Bundled Package:
Purchase All 3 Courses For One Discounted Price
We Call It "The Road to Redemption"
Everything you need to take full ownership and change who you are at the root.
This bundle includes all 3 online courses:
- WHAT Have I Done
- What’s My WHY
- The HOW Behind the Hurt
Real change doesn’t come from a single moment of regret, it comes from a committed process. This 3-course bundle takes you step-by-step through uncovering WHAT you’ve done and the full impact of your choices, understanding WHY you betrayed in the first place, and dismantling the distorted thoughts and justifications behind HOW you allowed it to continue. It’s the most direct way to do the deep work your partner desperately needs to see.
If You Like Discounts, We Offer A Bundled Package:
Purchase All 3 Courses For One Discounted Price
We Call It "The Road to Redemption"
Everything you need to take full ownership and change who you are at the root.
This bundle includes all 3 online courses:
- WHAT Have I Done
- What’s My WHY
- The HOW Behind the Hurt
Real change doesn’t come from a single moment of regret, it comes from a committed process. This 3-course bundle takes you step-by-step through uncovering WHAT you’ve done and the full impact of your choices, understanding WHY you betrayed in the first place, and dismantling the distorted thoughts and justifications behind HOW you allowed it to continue. It’s the most direct way to do the deep work your partner desperately needs to see.
Want To Help Your Partner On Her Healing?
"Helping Her Heal" shows you how to respond to her pain in a way that builds safety, instead of accidentally adding more hurt. When you learn to validate her experience and hold steady, it creates the trust and emotional connection your relationship needs to move forward.
Helping Her Heal - Online Course
Understand her pain. Learn how to show up with empathy.
This course teaches you how to listen without getting defensive, validate her trauma, and offer the kind of consistent support she actually needs.
Best for: Partners who want to repair the damage and build emotional safety
Includes: 8 sessions, optional workbook, lifetime access
Understand her pain. Learn how to show up with empathy.
This course teaches you how to listen without getting defensive, validate her trauma, and offer the kind of consistent support she actually needs.
Best for: Partners who want to repair the damage and build emotional safety
Includes: 8 sessions, optional workbook, lifetime access
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Each Heals Individually
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